Have We Got The Same Page in the Sex Book?

Or are we getting what it takes in the pleasure department?

Let's do a compatability 'sex' test!

Have we got the same page in the bedroom? Do we need tips to improve sex? Have fun with learning your partner's preferences.

We need to know "Have we got it right? Are we pleasing both our partner and ourself in this relationship? Are we fully satisfied or could we possibly do something more to improve our intimacy? Have we got it right or have we got what it takes to make each other happy?"

Sometimes communication on a highly personal level with your partner is difficult. You may find it embarrassing to reveal your secret desires and fantasies. It is here that we ask ourselves, 'Have we got the same page in the sex manual, or is there something we should do differently to please our partner, or they should do to please us?'

Here is an opportunity to open a discussion on your preferences, as well as discover his/her likes and dislikes.

Find out if you and your partner are on the same wavelength. This compatibility test will reveal any number of things.

Firstly set the mood - open a bottle of wine, dim the lights and burn some scented candles.

Complete this yourself and give a copy to your partner to complete. No cheating! When finished, compare responses and look out for the consequences.

Both you and your partner could be in seventh heaven in less than seven minutes.

What 'gets you in the mood'?
A romantic dinner
Watching your partner work
Mood music and dancing

What is the best lighting to set the mood?
Bright daylight
Dim and romantic
Black as the night

What time of the day are you more tempted?
Morning
Afternoon
Evening

What is your preferred form of sex?
An event to fill the afternoon or evening
A quickie
A bit of foreplay then just get on with it

If it is up to your libido, how many times each week would you have sex?
0-1
2-3
More than 4

Which is your favourite position?
Man on the top (Missionary style)
Woman on the top
Doggie style

What's your favourite daytime pleasure?
A sumptuous meal including delicious desert
An afternoon snooze
A bit of bedroom delight

What gives you the most pleasure?
Passionate kissing
Oral sex
Genital stimulation

Oral sex. Do you like giving or receiving?
Giving
Receiving
No thanks!

Do you like to 'talk dirty' during sex?
Sometimes
All the time
Never

Do you like any 'rough play' during sex?
Spanking, make me yell out
A little roughness
No thank you sweetie

What hair do you like 'down there'?
Natural
Neat and trimmed
All bare

If you are woken during the night for some fun, would you?
Gladly and happily join in
Ho hum, sleepily allow the disturbance
Roll over and go back to sleep

Which would you allow to spice up your sexual relationship?
Sex toys, blue movies, vibrators etc
Role playing - living out fantasies
Nothing, it's okay as is

Now that you have expressed yourself to your partner, what is going to be the result?

Pleasure, satisfaction and contentment.

Have we been on the same page, or do we need to turn it over? Have we got it right? I hope you will find an even keel to maintain your sexual happiness.

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